At least my attitude was good

It's amazing how people who've grown up watching and playing this sport can be so bloody ignorant - you kick a ball, at point-blank range, into the guys arm (which is plastered against the side of his body), it's not a freakin' hand-ball! Nor is it a handball when you kick it against someone's arm, when his back is turned and couldn't see it coming!

If this is what comes with first-division men's amateur soccer, I despair.

I have to wonder if some of it is because the team is made up completely of immigrants, from a hodge-podge of different countries, and here I am, the lone white-bread native-born USA citizen, and they thought they could be a run at me. No idea how useful it was, as I ended up handing out three dissent cards (I don't think I've done that since my first year reffing high school), could have easily handed out two more more, but I held off on the initials bookings until they turned their attention to my assistants.

Did I mention they won, too? Rather handily, in fact. Take the bitching and moaning out of it, and it was a pretty interesting game - a classic matchup of young and fast, versus skill and cunning. While the winning team had no nowhere near the speed, they played one-touch passing, kept the pace down, and scored crafty goal-after-goal - and after falling behind 2-0 at the outset.

The bummer is that this willl probably be the only 1st division men's match I'll get (since I'm not a State Referee), and while I know I had some rough spots (I mean, how well can I get the feel of that level of game when I only do one a year?), I think I did relatively well. But I made it, and I had fun, and did a lot of smiling through the whinging - so at least my attitude was, even if their opinion of me wasn't, good. (more)

17 July '08 - 16:10 - - default| No comments yet - §

No good deed goes unpunished

You know what should have happened? I should have heard from the players something along the lines of, "Well, he made an extra effort for us, he could have said 'No' right off the bat. We tried." Instead, it was, "The ref won't make me play, even though I came all the way from ____," followed by the inevitable, "fucking ref."

So, I'm the bad guy again, and I think I went through some extraordinary lengths to try to get a player to play, and I didn't have to do it. Again, it's a simple situation: the player has no pass. They say they had no pass last week, but had a letter from the league that allowed her to play - that's no problem, because the letter gets included with the game report, and if the letter is a forgery then there is hell to pay (by the team, not the officials). The problem is, they didn't have a letter for this game - and they are required to have a separate letter for each match they play - and their team captain who, presumably, would have it wasn't coming to this game. They didn't even have a copy of last game's letter.

So here's were I thought I would be clever, and terribly accommodating - if they can get the letter and email it to me, I'd get it on my phone and we could let her play. Seems more that reasonable, no? They thought so too, at first - so they made some calls and got the "letter" scanned in and emailed to me. Problem was, it was scanned as a .pdf, which my phone won't open; so they did it a second time (at this point my center told me to keep my cell phone with me on the line to check the mail as it came in) - but when it came in, it wasn't the letter I was expecting, but a scan of her pass. But it wasn't just one of her pass, but two passes - including a player we had already checked in!

By now, 30 minutes into the first half, the player sitting out has whipped her team into a mild frenzy, and they're all complaining about why she can't go in (despite them being up 7-1, she's somehow absolutely critical to their team). The center and I talked some more about it at half time, and agree that, no - it can't happen (not much of a discussion, but him saying we'd discuss it at half-time diffused things a bit). And now we go back to the top of this article.

Fucking ref? Fucking unappreciative players. (more)

08 July '08 - 09:29 - - default| four comments, already - §

4th Official

I've known the center for this match for a long while, but we've never worked together before. She got her National badge last year, and I've heard from multiple sources that she's on the fast-track for a FIFA badge. I expect next summer I'll see her on TV working the new professional women's league (they will have a TV contract, right?).

I only had the fourth today - the assignor was looking for more, but I just wasn't available; but I said I'd help her out for the last game of the night, which was this game. The game itself was really tame for a U18 girls final - mostly because most teams were going to Regionals, so aside from some bragging rights, it really didn't mean much.

07 July '08 - 15:48 - - default| No comments yet - §

What was I thinking?

OK, it wasn't an awful game, but it certainly wasn't my best. Because I'm not as available for games this year as I've been in the past, I'll be wrapping up the State Cup shortly. But this isn't the way I'd like to go out.

A few things threw me off - first was the wind. It threw everyone off, actually - it was very strong and very gusty and it would take the ball at seemingly random times. This mucked up my positioning a lot during the first half. The second half was a series of brain farts that thankfully didn't alter the outcome of the game - it just pissed me off.

The game itself wasn't that good - 16 girls game, and neither team played well enough to do much, juding by this one game. The team that should have won, but didn't, had plenty of shots in the first half when the wind was at their back, but none of them were quality and they went into half scoreless. In the second half they kept possession, but could move the ball up enough to take a good shot, and their opponents got a fluke goal, courtesy of the wind, and ended up taking the game.

The brain farts in the second half, late (to make things worse) were some blown offside flags; I've been getting some conflicting advice on the flags - one one hand, I've been nagged for not looking at the ARs quick enough to see the flag (and in some cases, rightly so, taken to task for spacing out on them altogether). But on the other hand, I've been told repeatedly to hold-off on watching them, especially if others are in close contact, to watch for any potential problem or foul, rather than a possible flag that may or may not be there; when the later is brought up, it's usually said that if there's a flag, "people will let me know." In this case, it was more of a space-out issue, and when I was alerted to the flag, let the play start right-away, rather than holding up the restart for a few seconds to allow everyone to get into position (since it was my mistake) - but I didn't, and a second goal was nearly scored because of it. What was I thinking? I know this stuff. (more)

01 July '08 - 00:01 - - default| Only one comment - §

Cancellation AGAIN?!?

Note: This is a follow-up to I know more lawyers - I put the Regionals story ahead of everything else, because of the timeliness.

This now makes three games in a row. The first game was because of poor playing conditions (or at least to save them - I'll find out how they're looking in a week or so when I head back there); the second was from a team without passes; this time it's because of a field that's not marked. Or, marked for Lacrosse, but not soccer.

Maybe someone's trying to tell me something.

27 June '08 - 09:03 - - default| No comments yet - §

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Feature Articles

Updated Reading of the LOTG - §

I've updated the audio-recording of the Laws of the Game. It's still not a professional recording, there's still bound to be little mistakes (and maybe even big ones - did I mention it's not a professional recording?). If you're like me, and spend a lot of the time in the car (or someplace else where reading isn't practical, but listening is), maybe this will help you.

No update to the ATR yet - the last couple years has seen the USSF tighten up on it's copyright; and although I can't see this as a threat to them, I haven't decided if the greater good is worth more than the possible financial hit.

You can download the updated reading here (44.5 MB).

17 Mar '08 - 20:06 | No comments yet

The New USSF Sock: This End Up - §

OSI is gradually pushing out the pieces of the new uniform, and recently I obtained the final piece of the revamp - the socks. I try to be very honest about the good and the bad about OSI (see this article for a review of the new jerseys), but I've always loved the fit of their socks; and with the revamp of the new socks, the fit of the stockings haven't changed, but the styling has.

Let's be perfectly clear: 90% or more of referees in this country do not need these socks. (more)

11 Feb '08 - 21:15 | six comments, already

Refblog.com OS X Dashboard Widget - §

OK, so I'm a geek: aside from the owner, I'm the only one in the company I work for that doesn't have kids, so I'm stucking working all week (except for Tuesday), so instead of going elsewhere to visit family, I'm here playing around with utilities in the latest version of OS X, in this case, DashCode.

So, with little fanfare, I submit a Dashboard Widget for you Mac users that brings up this humble little blog. I have no graphical abilities, so I won't claim it's pretty, but it does work, using this existing RSS feed. You can download it here (more)

22 Dec '07 - 20:41 | No comments yet

First Look: The 2008 OSI/USSF Uniform - §

Note: When you click the (more) link to view the entire article, you'll want to increase, if not maximize, the screen to see both the text and pictures.

I won't kid you about buying the jerseys so I can review them on the site - no, I bought them because I want to do Regionals again, I want to do semi-pro games again - I want to do good games. Before the first time I went to Regionals (and what a neat thing it is to say that), I was told by one of the assessors who was going with us, the equivalent of, "Good, you have Official Sports jerseys - that's what you're supposed to have"; he then went on to say that since Regionals is a USSF sponsored tournament, and OSI is a USSF sponsor, you should wear OSI gear.

I'm sure OSI loves to hear that, because even with holiday "specials" going on, you're going to shell out over $500 if you decide to refit your entire wardrobe (more)

14 Dec '07 - 16:28 | twelve comments, already

Regionals Diary 2007 - §

I was privileged enough to be invited back to participate in the US Youth Soccer regional tournament; all those who won their respective State Cups, or got in from winning the Regional League come here to fight for a berth to the national championship. It's tremendous soccer, and plenty of the joy of victory and the agony of defeat for referees as well (more)

10 Nov '07 - 01:25 | three comments, already

10 Best of 2006, The List - §

Below are my totally subjective list of the best entries I wrote in 2006. I've also tossed in, just in case you want to want to see how things have changed, added the "Best Of" lists for 2005, 2004, and 2003 . (more)

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Review of the Timex O.V.A. (Optimum Viewing Angle) Watch - §

Reffing, like soccer itself, is pretty simple in its requirements: you need to be there, know the Laws of the Game, and have the instruments to enforce it. The bare essentials of the later requirement are a whistle (to get people’s attention), cards (to administer misconduct, and in some places that can be flexible), a place to write down important facts about the game (including the score), and a watch (to keep track of the amount of time in the game).

I’m pretty picky about watches, although my requirements are few: (more)

20 Apr '07 - 17:57 | five comments, already

How to Become a Better Referee - §

As I was editing How to Become a Referee, several things came to mind on things that you can do to become a better referee. This is my all means not an exhaustive list, but something I've pick up over the years, after I decided that I wanted to keep blowing the whistle, and that I wanted to become better at it. Feel free to add suggestions. (more)

15 Mar '07 - 22:23 | two comments, already

How to Become a Referee - §

Becoming a referee is not a terribly difficult process - but let's be totally honest here - staying one is. Not having a ton of experience, I can't help a whole lot with the later, but here's a quick summary of what to do for the former (OK, and a little of what I've learned - take with salt). (more)

28 Jan '07 - 20:41 | two comments, already

USA Cup Diary 2006 - §

Even with some flaws this year, it's still the best run, and one of the most memorable, if not the most optimistic, tournaments in the nation. As usual, the good, the bad, and the ugly - with the ugly being more spread out this year, but not quite as intense as last (more)

27 Sep '06 - 11:18 | four comments, already

10 Best of 2005, The List - §

Below are my totally subjective list of the best entries I wrote in 2005. I've also tossed in, just in case you want to want to see how things have changed, added the "Best Of" lists for 2004 and 2003 (more)

21 Feb '06 - 17:54 | No comments yet

List of Products Reviewed - §

There have been three formal reviews of products on this site. Here they are, in order:

Review of Masterclass for Soccer Officials

Review of the RefsCall Electronic Flag Set

Product review of the new USSF Shorts

18 Feb '06 - 10:06 | No comments yet

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